Seems like I am on a writing
spree these days, otherwise I usually keep looking for topics and end up writing
nothing. As much as I enjoy writing, it is sometimes difficult to figure out what to
write about. I have been wanting to write about this particular topic from a long time but was
not getting the flow of it. Now my thoughts are aligned and I am
writing with great joy, I hope you as a reader also enjoy reading it as much.
My SIL is born on same day,
same month just a year after I was born. we share the same (rashi)zodiac sign
and our (nakshatra)stars are same. We even share the same nickname at home. She
got married to my brother exactly a year after my marriage. So, it was more
like she was my replacement in my maika (mom's home). I call this destiny. we connected
instantly and we are so alike in everything may it be thinking, behaviour,
attitude, dressing, taste in food, even the TV shows and web series interests are alike; anything and everything our wavelengths
match. whenever I am in doubt about myself, she is first one I reach out to.
She is always there to guide me, support me, nurture me, and encourage
me. She has constantly helped me take the right decisions about smaller and bigger things in life.
Something in common about both, they are both like my sisters from different mothers. I never feel lonely, never felt the need of a sister, they have my back no matter what. We motivate each other at all times. we are fitness enthusiasts(whatever little we do). I am truly blessed to have them in my life. The way they care for my daughter, it’s truly unbelievable. They stand as a rock for her, and she is so attached to them. She shares a special bond with them, I even get jealous of their bonding sometimes. What more can I ask for?
In general, to everyone who is reading this, if you have sister-in-law, co-sister or even friends/ neighbours and things are not right, just resolve them. Life is too short to keep grudges. Mend those fences and if you are lucky as I am, maybe you too will find your soul sisters.